Grief at The Loss Of a Loved One - Dealing With Grief

As a clairvoyant, I can see my loved ones inactually living, could not be put into words. What
other realms. I feel Louise take my arm oftenwe humans normally experience and perceive - is
and hear her laughing. This doesn't mean that Ionly the tip of the iceberg. I am now struggling to
would not want her to actually walk into theexpress the wonder that I feel and the magic of
room, embodied. It is a different sort of hug fromthe interweavings of realities that exist in our lives
realm to realm, a bit more intangible. Even for the- and the Divine Ideas behind the realities. So
clairvoyant, the physical loss is not always animmense, and all so carefully orchestrated.
easy one. Although over time we become familiarSometimes, if we get even a glimpse, we will call
with the changes in form, the new reality. Theit mere coincidence - if we even notice.
Beauty of it. In some ways it is more Beautiful -What I clairvoyantly see is that we are all
the transparency and the clarity are breathtaking,connected, human heart to human heart and
the simplicity of feeling. It becomes a differenthearts from realm to realm. What I clairvoyantly
relationship, and in many ways it is deeper,glimpse is very like the motives and musical
stronger and more tender than ever. And thethemes, phrases and sections of a beautiful piece
Love is so immense and continuous, on all sides.that I am composing or interpreting on the piano.
No disputes, no disagreements. No egos to dealThemes and tones come into being, creating
with. Just the Love.musical lines and harmonies, so many layers
Do I still miss them all, in their physical bodies?effortlessly forming to create this one moment in
Yes! Do I still cry sometimes? Yes! But it is atime. All the words in any book I could write
different sort of missing them - because they aremight create a second of experience in our lives.
here with me. So I am crying a little while theyEven the most advanced and mystical
themselves comfort me. And after I cry a little,clairvoyants only get a brief Glimpse of this
then I can just enjoy our relationship the way itintricate truth.
is, with all the differences in realms and forms.Why all this is kept from us here on earth is a
Our realms are not that different, nor thatmystery. If we saw this beautiful immensity and
distant; the body I carry with me does not fullyintricacy, we would be so grateful, and we would
obscure the soul. There is a constant interweavinglive entirely different lives. Using what words I can
of Hearts, both here on earth and from realm tofind, I am trying to present the concept, the idea
realm, that most of us are not consciously awarethat this immense and complicated larger Reality
of. That does not mean that this connection doesexists. That we do not know, do not see the
not exist. It is only hidden from us.entire picture. Because if we think this
For the non-clairvoyant, more Faith is needed. Andconventional, physical earth reality is all there is -
when one develops that Faith, then one begins tothen we are headed for a lot of trouble and much
feel the Love coming from those realms. Thensuffering. If I am experiencing a difficult time, I tell
we have the comfort and support of that Love.myself that I am not seeing the entire picture, I
The beings in other realms Love us with a Lovewill undoubtedly never know the whole picture.
we can barely imagine - and they wish us toBut I do know that Divine Ideas are at work,
know this. Our grief can block the Love they sendevery moment of every day, and that Divine
us. So this Faith is important for the Peace andLove is behind every event in the universe. Either
flow of Love from realm to realm, for and fromthe Divine has caused the event or the Divine
all beings, in all realms.allowed it for the good of the souls involved.
On earth we experience a separation that is notKnowing that I do not know everything, that I do
ultimately real. Once we reach a certain level ofnot see the whole - brings me back to Peace.
spiritual attainment, those separations begin toAs for the natural and understandable pain of loss
dissolve. Ultimately - we are all the same essence,that you are feeling: with practice, the knowledge
and every relationship is soul to soul. The dog, thethat we are the soul becomes abiding. At that
cat, my mother, my neighbor, my friend, thepoint, one stands in that knowledge while
saint - we are all one and indistinguishable inexperiencing the pain of the moment. The pain
Source and Essence. The individual forms are justthen becomes like a cloud briefly passing before
floating on that Divine Essence. That is what Ithe sun, the blue sky only temporarily and partially
clairvoyantly see. Even the coal stove is a formobscured. In our daily lives we are aware of both
floating on that Divinity. Clairvoyantly, what I see- the pain and suffering and disappointments of
is so wondrous. My clairvoyance is not limited to:life and the remembrance that we are the soul. In
"Your father just showed up in my living room."my experience, the only true antidote to the
What I see is immense, infinitely complicated andsuffering of life is to remember that we are all
infinitely simple. The wonder and the beauty ofthe eternal soul.
what I am sometimes shown, what we arePeace to all who read these lines.